Have you ever wanted something so badly, that you would do anything to get it?
Maybe jump on stage with a rock star?
Gate crash a party?
Rob a bank ?
Didn’t think so…
But in all seriousness: The fact is this:
There is ONE main reason that Not many people GET what they want…
And that is…SELF DOUBT.
So Are you ready to get more of what you want out of life?
Then… I am going to share with you the 3 secrets to getting more of what you want…
You ready? Let’s go.
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FULL VIDEO TRANSCRIPT
Look, the reason many people fail is this: we often tell ourselves a story that we can’t DO something, HAVE something or BE something. Maybe someone told you that and you believed it. Let me ask you this, when you were little did you ever dream about being a famous singer or actor or maybe an astronaut or politician?
Many of my students come to me later in life to learn public speaking, acting or singing and some of them have real talent!!! The thing that bothers me the most, is they never even tried!!!! They believed for some reason that it was not possible for them, so they went on to do something completely different only to find out many years later, that dream is still alive inside… waiting to come out. I don’t want THAT to happen to YOU!
So, let’s dive into a few things that can change… YOUR LIFE.
#1: THE 10% REWARD .
I heard a saying recently “BOLDNESS is a better indicator of success than being smart!”. Boldness could be called the secret sauce of success! So how do we execute it? It’s called the 10% Reward.
The idea is this: whatever you want most in life, make 10 attempts at it. Most people don’t make more than 1 attempt. But if you get comfortable with falling 90% of the time, you will either get what you want 10% of the time or more you might even get something you didn’t know was possible.
Let me give you an example: in a recent survey,160,000 people stated they believed they deserved to make more money. But here’s the thing, two-thirds of those surveyed didn’t even ask for a raise! Out of the one-third of people that did ask for a raise, 70% of those people actually GOT IT! So, start building confidence in asking for the small things you want in life. The better you get at that, then you can start asking for the bigger things you want. Train your body and your brain to become stronger and bolder.
#2: THE 5-SECOND RULE
This is from a well-known book by Mel Robbins. She suggests that when you feel yourself hesitate before doing something you know would get you closer to your goal, don’t think but instead, count 5-4-3-2-1, GO and make an ACTION towards that goal. There is a small window of opportunity that exists between the moment you have that instinct to ACT and then 5 seconds later when your fear kicks in, the fear will kill the idea and stop you from taking action. It’s a 5-second window. And it exists for everyone. If you do not take action on your instinct to change, you will stay stagnant. But if you do this one simple thing and take action within 5 SECONDS, you can prevent your fearful mind from working against you. The counting backwards will focus you on the goal and distract you from the worries, thoughts, and excuses in your mind. As soon as you reach “1” – TAKE ACTION. But if you don’t act on an instinct within that 5-second window, you’re never going to change.
#3: THE SECRET TO SUCCESS
When I was little, all I ever wanted to be was a singer, actor and dancer. I was super focused on being a performer and I wasn’t interested in anything else. The most important thing I did to take action on my goals was this: I hired coaches that could keep me accountable to my goals and dreams. Finding the right coaches during every stage of my career, helped me learn the skills I needed to make my dreams come true.
Because of that commitment and accountability, I had a successful 35-year-career as an entertainer and got to sing and act my way around the world – living my dream job every day.
Now, I’m not the most talented singer on the planet but I was BOLD enough to attend auditions and built enough resilience in myself to keep trying even when I heard NO. Imagine if I stopped trying after my first audition?
I have attended hundreds of auditions, received hundreds of rejections, but you know what? I also booked tons of jobs and never had to pour coffee or wait on tables simply because I followed rule #1 and rule #2.
So, don’t be afraid to ACT upon your dreams. Remember, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
Do not forget: Speak up. Speak out. Be ready to be heard because remember: YOUR VOICE MATTERS.